Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Who is my man?

Who is your man?

Jeff DeBruler

How long have you been together?

Since December of 2003-or at least that's when we met and I fell head over heels for him. We have seen each other *just* about everyday since the day we met, minus half a dozen days, or so, when he goes out of town to drag races. We married in May of 2006.

How long did you date?

2 yrs and 5 months-including engagement.

How old is your man?

33-he'll be 34 in October.

Who eats more?

Honestly, right now, I do because I'm nursing and I feel like I'm starving to death all the time. But if I'm unpregnant and not nursing (haven't seen those days in a while!) then he would eat more than me.

Who said "I love you" first?

Funny story, I was CRAZY about him and knew that I was in love with him but we hadn't been dating all that long so I was afraid to say it - I didn't want to scare him off, and it would have crushed me if he had rejected me after telling him how much I loved him. So, after I had put Summer and JD to bed one night, Jeff came over to see me (at that point I wasn't letting him spend a great deal of time with my children-wanted to make certain he was a sure thing). We were watching TV and he leaned over and told me that he felt like he was falling in love with me, I got all flustered because I felt the same way and told him that I KNEW I was in love with him, so...there you have it, I guess technically he said it first.

Who is taller?

He is.

Who sings better?

Jeff doesn't sing so I would have to say that I am the better singer. Yeah, I am definitely a good singer, anyone who has ever heard me sing tells me how amazing my voice is. Often they say things like, "Interesting, I've never heard anything like that before." What a compliment, my voice must truly be one of a kind.

Who is smarter?

We both have our areas of expertise. There's a lot of things that he knows that I don't, common sense kinda stuff. But I'm more the book smart type, I know a lot of worthless, random information.

Who's temper is worse?

Well, we each have different ways that we handle ourselves. I just kind of fly off the handle and start yelling and rambling, then I'm done, I'm over it. Jeff hardly ever, ever gets mad about anything, but when he's had enough - you better clear out! We both have tempers, I show mine off more often than he does.

Who does the laundry?

We both do-however, at some point in the near future, my children will take over that job.

Who takes the trash out?

We both do-but JD helps most of the time, and soon he will be able to take that job over, he needs time to bulk up a little, trash is heavy to lift.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?

We both do-(hee, hee) .

Who pays the bills?

I currently keep up with the check writing and balancing the check book. However, Jeff will take over those responsibilities very soon because I need a break! But really, it's pretty mutual. There are no secrets, we both know how much $ we have, or don't have. We both know when bills are do, he may drop off a payment here or there if he's in town. We are pretty much on the same page when it comes to that sorta stuff.

Who is better with the computer?

He is.

Who mows the lawn?

He does for now. Again, just waiting patiently for my children to get a little older. There will come a day when Jeff won't have to mow anymore and that responsibility will belong to one of the kids.

Who cooks dinner?

Me, most of the time. Unless we grill out. My husband is, hands down, the best "meat cooker", whether it be grilling, frying, baking, BBQing, -he's way better than me.

Who drives when you are together?

He does. I really like for my husband to drive. I think he's cute and when he drives, it gives me a chance to look at him.

Who pays when you go out?

Does it matter, he's the only one making the money, so I guess technically, he pays! Usually though, when we go out, he will pay the bill.

Who is the most stubborn?

Me, no him, no me, no-definitely him, mostly me and usually's a secret.

Who is the first to admit when they are wrong?

We are both still learning to do this. I, however, am really good at admitting when *he* is wrong, but I don't think that was the question.

Who's parents do you see most often?

We see my Mom more often because she lives so close. His parents and my Dad live out of town.

Who kissed who first?

I attacked him first, but I forewarned him that it was going to happen if he didn't stop lookin' so darn handsome all the time, and he always smelled so good! So I might have kissed him first, but he made me do it... it was his fault.

Who asked who out?

It was a blind date. However, he was gracious enough to go out with me after I stood him up twice!

Who proposed?

He did, he gave me my ring in this HUGE box with this cheesy note in it that said,"Will you marry me?" We never set a date though. The wedding date was set when this conversation came up..."Uh, babe, I'm pregnant. I guess we should get married ASAP?"

Who is more sensitive?

Me--I win that one every time!

Who has more friends?

Definitely, him. I have "acquaintances", but not really all that many friends-this sounds awful, but I don't make time for friendships at this point in my life. Jeff works with his best friend everyday so it's easier for him to nurture that relationship. My closest friends are my sisters, my mother, and Jeff-those are the people that I see or talk to everyday.

Who has more siblings?

I have 2 sisters and 2 step-siblings. Jeff has 3 half siblings. How do ya figure that up?

Who wears the pants in the family?

He does.

How did you meet?

My sister introduced us.

1 comment:

  1. You wait until you get to the very end of the story to tell I introduced you. I think that's the most important part in. How does it feel to admit that He wears the pants in the family. Girl, don't ever admit that! We let them think they do but they don't. We LET them think that they wear the pants. GET IT YET??